If you have seen "Madea goes to Jail" by Tyler Perry, you can imagine the amazement that came with Madea's "visit" to jail. She was on rampage and in the times when it most appeared that she was going to get really worse, Madea turned out to be such a wise voice and a positive influence on other inmates. The story is this: You cannot blame your failure in life on what someone did to you. You have to get up and take responsibility for your eventual outcome. If you don't forgive, you give the other person power over your life.